ABOUT JUSTIN M. RIORDAN

Justin is the founder of Spade and Archer Design Agency, where he has led a thriving, values-driven business for over 16 years. With a Bachelor of Architecture and a career rooted in intentional, thoughtful design, Justin brings an architect’s clarity and structure to every corner of life—including how we build and sustain our most important relationships.

He is the author of The Monogamy Spectrum and the creator of Relationable—a practical, real-world toolkit for thriving in high-stakes relationships, both personal and professional. This approach was born from more than two decades of lived experience in a boldly intentional marriage with his husband, Joe. Together, they’ve raised a son, built a business, and reshaped what honest, sustainable partnership can look like.

RELATIONABLE: BUILT BY EXPERIENCE, DESIGNED TO LAST

Relationable isn’t academic or theoretical—it’s lived, pressure-tested, and rooted in real conversations, real conflict, and real connection. It was shaped by late nights, hard decisions, and the kind of day-to-day resilience that comes from building a life with integrity.

Created for entrepreneurs, executives, creatives, and changemakers, Relationable champions the same principles that fuel strong leadership: clarity, communication, trust, and adaptability.

SPEAKING THAT’S STRAIGHTFORWARD, STRATEGIC, AND HUMAN

As a keynote speaker and workshop leader, Justin brings humor, heart, and no-nonsense wisdom to every room. He doesn’t offer rigid rules or scripts—instead, he shows people how to design relationships that actually work. Whether you're leading a company or navigating intimacy, his talks invite meaningful self-reflection, grounded strategy, and fresh perspective.

TOOLS FOR WORK, LOVE, AND LIFE

Whether you’re rethinking your relationship, building team culture, or getting clear on your values, Relationable provides a new path forward. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about creating structures that hold up under pressure and allow connection to grow where it matters most.

Mistakes don’t end relationships…

lies, mistrust, and misunderstanding do.

SELECT TOPICS:

     RELATIONABLE    

  TOOLS TO THRIVE IN YOUR MOST    

     MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS        

After 25 years in a boldly intentional marriage, 16 years leading a successful design firm, and a lifetime spent building things that last, Justin M. Riordan brings you RELATIONABLE—a practical, field-tested approach to navigating the relationships that matter most. This isn’t abstract theory. It’s real talk from a relationship architect who knows how to lay a strong emotional foundation. Blending humor, hard-won insight, and heart, Justin delivers a fresh take on how to create clarity, build trust, and defuse conflict—whether you're leading a team, growing a business, or nurturing a partnership at home. If relationships are the operating system of your life, RELATIONABLE is the upgrade you’ve been waiting for.

THE MONOGAMY SPECTRUM

             DEFINE YOUR BOUNDARIES             

Based on Justin’s book, The Monogamy Spectrum, this unforgettable talk invites audiences to rethink the rules of love, loyalty, and what it means to be committed. Blending candid personal stories with insight from two decades in an cutting edge marriage and a thriving business partnership, Justin guides you through defining your own boundaries—without shame, without judgment, and with a whole lot of laughter. This isn’t about choosing the right model—it’s about designing one that works, for you.

      FLOPPORTUNITY      

    CREATE RESILIENCE IN YOUR LIFE AND BUSINESS.     

Your relationship’s in crisis. Your business is upside-down. Your dream went up in smoke. Now what? In this raw, funny, and surprisingly hopeful talk, Justin shares how the worst moments in life can become launchpads for transformation. Through personal stories of failure (and the wisdom they gave birth to), FLOPPORTUNITY offers a powerful toolkit: one part emotional resilience, one part architectural thinking, and one part gallows humor. Perfect for leaders who’ve hit a wall—and want to build a door.

     NAME THAT HOUSE     

    KNOW YOUR ARCHITECTURE WHEN IT COUNTS.    

With a Bachelor of Architecture and 16 years designing homes for maximum emotional impact, Justin takes audiences on a lightning-fast tour of America’s most iconic architectural styles—showing you how design, storytelling, and psychology intersect. Whether you’re selling homes or just want to impress at your next dinner party, Name That House will sharpen your eye, deepen your design vocabulary, and make you laugh as you learn. You’ll never look at a roofline the same way again.

     LUXURY DECODED     

      THE PSYCHOLOGY OF HIGH-END BUYERS.     

Luxury isn’t a one size fits all, it never has been—it’s emotional safety, identity affirmation, and narrative control. In this high-energy session, Justin fuses his design background, marketing savvy, and relationship expertise to unpack how wealthy clients actually buy. You’ll explore the hierarchy needs of housing, decode generational wealth psychology, and discover the amenities luxury buyers crave most—and no one’s talking about. Whether you're selling homes, selling dreams, or somewhere in between this talk will change how you see your clients—and yourself.

EXPERTISE

  • Designing Relationships That Last

  • Intentional Boundary Setting

  • Building Resilience Through Failure

  • Understanding Luxury Psychology

  • Rewarding Honesty to Create Trust

  • Emotional Insight by Design

OFFERINGS

  • Keynote Speaking

  • Workshop Facilitation

  • 1-on-1 Coaching

  • Master of Ceremonies

  • Panel Moderator

  • On-Stage Interviewer

  • Conversational Catalyst

  • Podcast Guest or Host

SELECT AUDIENCES

Justin M. Riordan brings a rare blend of design thinking, entrepreneurial grit, and emotional intelligence to every stage he steps on. With a Bachelor of Architecture, 16 years as the founder of a successful design firm, and a career in public speaking shaped by both personal truth and professional polish, Justin has captivated audiences ranging from boardroom executives to boundary-breaking creatives.

He is the author of The Monogamy Spectrum and the creator of The Interdependent Blueprint—frameworks that have made him a sought-after voice on leadership, connection, and communication. His keynotes and workshops have inspired entrepreneurs, real estate professionals, and industry leaders alike.

Justin has spoken for members of Entrepreneurs' Organization (EO), delivered powerful storytelling at Ignite Seattle, and led transformative trainings for powerhouse brokerages such as Windermere Real Estate, Coldwell Banker, and Keller Williams. His audiences also include top-performing professionals in title and escrow, including First American Title, Old Republic Title, and Chicago Title.

Whether he’s speaking to startup founders, real estate experts, or teams navigating high-stakes conversations, Justin delivers content that is deeply resonant, refreshingly honest, and strategically designed to strengthen the human connections that drive professional and personal success.

BUY THE BOOK

In The Monogamy Spectrum, Justin M. Riordan challenges everything you thought you knew about commitment, exclusivity, and love. With a refreshing mix of personal anecdotes, historical insights, and diverse cultural perspectives, this book delves deep into the physical, emotional and financial, dimensions of monogamy—unpacking its many forms, its challenges, and its evolution in the modern world.

Are you truly monogamous? Do your relationship boundaries serve you, or were they simply inherited? Through intimate storytelling and a thought-provoking self-evaluation quiz, Riordan guides readers to better understand their own desires, relationship patterns, and the complex nuances of intimacy. Whether you're questioning, reaffirming, or redefining your relationship ideals, The Monogamy Spectrum is your roadmap to a more conscious and authentic love life.

Are you ready to discover your boundaries?